Trust, without it, you have nothing…

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Dear Neighbors,

Asia, Africa, United Kingdom, Europe, Holland, Rotterdam, your neighborhood, in your street. People! Everywhere we look, we see people. All kinds of people. Young, old, beautiful, ugly, strong, weak, you name it.

But why is it that, with all these feet walking around, the only one you can really trust, is those you see when you look down?

Trust, maybe it’s the most powerful word there is. Without it, you have nothing. If you’re in a relationship, it’s the trust that keeps you together. Not even the love, without trust, your relationship is doomed to fail. In business,  If you’re planning on building an Empire with a partner you don’t trust. You might as well start giving your money away for free, because believe me, your guts feeling says it all.

Ladies, have you ever stand in line at a party, and the same guys who were tryna jump all over you just to get in, were the ones who try to holla at you in the club, when their ass is all comfortable? Terrible, terrible, terrible! These guys must think you’re dumb and visually impaired. How can i ever trust you to have my back, if at the doors you left me behind it?

Guys, have you ever had a girlfriend who slept with your best friend? TERRIBLE!. I see why they say, these hoes ain’t loyal, because for real, a lot of girls act like they are about to die tomorrow. Chill bitch.

Let’s not forget about the so called BF’s. Must stand for Best Fakers, cause the number of fake friends is taking over best friends. People have the ability to laugh in your face and plan something evil against you at the same time.

Either in a relationship, or at work, maybe you invite them at your house, everywhere you look, you see people. Some you know, some you think you know, some you don’t wanna know and a lot you don’t know at all. All these people are looking for something. They all have the same goal. Getting there! Where that is? I really don’t know, but people are “selling” their souls for it. Keep in mind neighbors, that they will try to do it behind your back!

If you ask me: ‘You must always forgive someone who breaks your trust, but you should sure never forget it, let alone trust this person again!’

I will end this blog with an african saying:

‘We start as fools and become wise through experience’

Love… BellaThe1

 

 

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The Power of Social Media!

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Dear Neighbors,

It’s really getting ridiculous!

A “like” on Instagram can actually make you someones bitch nowadays. As soon as you like someone on Instagram, people gonna talk. I’ll tell you why:

The ones who gossip about you are mostly the ones who know nothing about you. An online action from you, got them “thinking” they all know you. Bitch you don’t know shit (excuse my french)! I could be liking a lamp, hanging behind the person, as far as you know. A like does not immediately means you want someone (at least for me it doesn’t, i don’t know about ya’ll). 🙂

BUT….. i must say: ‘We are all aware of the power social media has to be starting some shit.’ If there is a back and forth interaction, people are gonna assume things. Social media got us all connected to people we would never meet without it. You can get attention from stars by just tagging their ass online.

Our options of “finding someone we like” has become gigantic. People are even falling in love with persons they have only see on pictures. Attention: ‘You are in love with a picture!!’ We really need some Nev and Max over here in holland, because we got a lot of Catfishes too.

Social media got us giving away our number to people we would usually run away from. What you see online is not always what you get, and it’s not only the men who got this issue but we women too. Men are pretty good in pretending to be something they’re not. I think people who pretend, are acting before thinking, didn’t you think you will see the person in real life, eventually?

You can’t trust nobody online these days, remember that! If you meet someone online:


1: Make sure you guys call each other once in a while, you don’t want to be Erik Hartman when you finally meet.


2: If you can’t call each other you can send voice memo’s. At least to hear the voice behind the letters.


3: Videochat! If someone is on Social Media, this person can videochat. There is really no excuse to not be videochatting with all the possibilities. You can even videochat on Facebook. This can make sure his/her face is real ;-).

 

Really people, catfish is so 2014. Stop it! If you fall for it anyways, you’re dumb, sorry!

 

So,… when i have a boyfriend, this social media thing, it most certainly gonna be…

 

‘a Discussion- of a Problem- we need to Solve’.

 

Love… BellaThe1

 

PS: Voor vertaling in NL klik hier >>>> Facebook: Dear Neighbors

 

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Young folks gone wild!

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Dear Neighbours,

I want to use this blog especially to talk to the young people among us, and with young i mean between 16 and let’s say 28.

I’ll start with a question first. ‘Have you people LOST your mind?’ The reason i ask this question is because i see the young generation in my environment, acting as if they got no brains. I must be living in the wrong world. There is absolutely NO respect given these days from boys to girls or vice versa. It’s like all these “children” grew up with no parents, because i can’t imagine your father nor your mother, raised you like that, at all!

Boys nowadays are making it a sport to screw as much girls as possible. Friends are even passing on girls to each other like ‘Pass the Courvoisier’, only these girls are not as classy as Courvoisier, obviously.

What kinda girl are you, when you screw the whole team? This is probably the reason boys are acting like this, cause these girls got no respect for themselves what so ever.

‘Is this really the life you want guys?’ What makes me mad is the fact that most of you don`t even wear protection! Not only are you taking risk, by spreading some killer diseases, but you also have no idea which girl is gonna baby trap your ass, and there you are: putting an innocent child in a fucked up situation. We all know: ‘a baby trapped daddy ain’t gonna stay!’

Girls, to get respect you have to respect yourself first! It’s not likely that a boy will respect you if you screwed his friends or if you’re known as the neighbourhood ho.

Boys, for real??? A girl is not an object. Someone is gonna call her mom one day. Do you wanna be the one who fucked that childs mother up?

I don’t know how this is gonna be in a few years especially as a mother, but I do know:

 

‘..it’s not looking good.’

 

Love… BellaThe1

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Child abuse…

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Dear Neighbours,

Child abuse…

It’s something people don’t want to think nor talk about. Unfortunately it happens all over the world.
There are different kinds of child abuse. Physical or emotional abuse, but also sexual child abuse.

I want to talk about the last one. We all have some sexual needs, but to express them on children…?
This is some fucked up shit, for real. I can’t and don’t want to imagine what such a person thinks when he does this cruel repulsive activity.
How can you as a grown up, take advantage from a child’s innocence and not only hurt this child physically, but also cause mental damages.

I read about this dutch top official sir Joris Demmink. Who’s been accused several times of sexual abuse of little boys. Someone is innocent until proven otherwise. In most cases it is. It could be your neighbour, or a teacher at your daughters school. It could even be an uncle or at the worst scenario, your own father. In that case the police will lock your sorry ass up and search for proof that you did all of these inconceivable things. And they should be. I think child abusers should be locked up for the rest of their lives with big strong baldy rapists. But since it’s about a pedophile that’s working for the department of justice, all of a sudden, JUSTICE is not doing his work as it supposed to be over here. They are even paying a lot of money to expensive lawyers to defend his pathetic ass.

This pedophile has a “side” job since the 90’s and is never been prosecuted. And every time he was accused, there was or a lack of evidence or the victims were accused of taking false reportings. How can the department of justice have an employee in service that’s being accused of pedophilia all this time? You should think they are supposed to lock this animal up instead of cash out salary to him every month.

I don’t get it, this system that’s supposed to protect us and our children, is allowing someone who has committed a BIG crime, lock up other criminals.

He obviously “ain’t worried about nothing…”

Love… BellaThe1

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Racism..

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Dear neighbours,

Racism, it’s a word we all know…

Normally you would think that in the year 2015 there would be no more racism, “Normally”. But it’s like racism is something that won’t fade away, ever. It’s something that happens daily. Could be by someone who complains about their foreign neighbours. Could be at a job application or when you’re walking in a store and the saleswoman follows you all around the store.
It seems like racism is something that happens automatically. Most of the time you ignore it and it doesn’t affect anyone. But lately this racism thing is getting out of proportion.

Let’s not talk about the racism in America, because that’s something that has already reached the whole world. I always thought that there was no place on this planet that could reach THE level of racism like it has reached in the US. But nowadays I’m re-thinking this thought.

I was shocked to read about all the reactions on the drownings near to Libya on my Facebook timeline, shared by my friends. Are these people human??? I even saw a hateful comment of a dad whom profile picture was one with his daughter. Is this what he will teach her??? Are these people shitting their brains out???

I think that, being a racist publicly here in Holland, started with the discussion about Black Pete (zwarte Piet). What started as a “innocent” children’s holiday called St. Nicholas, has turned into a grownups “disagreement” if black Pete is racist. In my view it is… Black Pete is a negative stereotype. Not only because he looks like a negro with over the top red lips. But also because it’s the blacks that’s being submissive to a white man called St. Nicholas. A vast majority of dutch people “truly” believe there is nothing racist about Black Pete… Really? But why are they arguing about changing the character tho?

In the past discrimination was something that happens indoors. But NOW people are posting hating racial comments publicly on Facebook like they are posting about the weather! The white people over here are like celebrating the death of hundreds of women, men AND children. Children, my dear neighbours!! Our future! I know Europe is crowded and we have our own problems over here. But to laugh about others death? Is this human? So if it is allowed to write racial things on the net these days, ask yourself neighbours: What’s next?..

This is something that not only bothers me, but most of ALL…

..concerns me.

 

Love… BellaThe1

(This is an old post from blogspot. I’ll post new ones every Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. Thank you for visiting. -XOXO-)

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