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Dear Neighbors,

I’m sorry, i’m really, really sorry. We all know these words, by using them ourselves or as an apology from someone. Someone who just did something to be sorry about.

Saying you’re sorry, does not take away the pain. It does not make the “mistake” disappear. I use quotation stabbing for the word mistake, because is it really a mistake?

If you hit me by accident or stand on my feet without noticing and you say ‘i’m sorry’, then we’re cool, but don’t be sorry for something you did on purpose. If you’re cheating on me for example, sorry is the last word i want to hear coming out of your lying mouth. You sure weren’t sorry at the moment you was enjoying your cheating ass.

If you promise me something and you didn’t come true, sorry is also out of option. Don’t you know the meaning of a promise? I will explain it to you:


‘A declaration assuring that one will or will not do something; A VOW

You COMMIT yourself in doing something (or not) for another!!

Why should you be sorry for doing something, which you already knew is hurtful to another person. Or did you had a small amnesia?

People who know that their action is gonna cause pain to someone, are not really sorry. Yes, sorry because they got caught. So in that case, you’re sorry to yourself i guess.

So next time, if you are planing to just “being sorry”, ask yourself:

Would I be okay with it? Cause remember…


What goes around…


Love… BellaThe1

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Why should you care?

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Dear Neighbours,

Why is it that people are so fascinated with other people’s life? Why should you fucking care who sleeps with whom and who is playing who? The funny part about it is: ‘People always wanna gossip about others, but they don’t want you to mention their name when you go confront that other person with it.‘ I’m telling you: ‘If you got no shame and come talk dirt to me about my man or a friend/family… Than you should have no shame when I mention your name as my source.’ Why should I make my brains work, to come up with a lie for a fiction, when i confront someone. This person WILL ask me where i got the information from. ‘Nooo, ain’t nobody got time for that.

Here is this “exposing” thing on social media. We people we love to see others get exposed. Once in a while, someone makes a fake Instagram with gossips about girls and guys or they share a sex video of others on Facebook. Why??? Why in hell, should you take any of your PRECIOUS time, cause time is precious guys, to go and deliberately hurt someone? Why do we, on the other side, enjoy watching and reading those things? Maybe it’s because we like to see others suffer. Or maybe we are glad the focus is on someone else instead of ourself. Either way if you come to think about it: ‘We are a bunch of heartless people ya’ll.

This exposing thing is not even fun anymore. When I hear or see some “new” exposure I’m like: ‘Here we go again, boringgg.‘ I don’t care about who is fooling who as long as the person isn`t fooling me. I don’t care about which guy is “bumping” which girl, cause the boy ain’t fucking ME! I CARE ABOUT ME! We people, should not be fascinated with nonsense! It does not make YOU better if someone else gets fucked and a “handful” of people know about it. Do you get paid for the information you got about others? Does it keep you dry when it rains? No, it doesn’t. Yeah okay, the person who got exposed must have felt real stupid, but ain’t nobody forcing them to do nasty things. Like Kevin Hart says: ‘You gon’ learn today!’

Neighbours I don’t know if you believe in God, but I do. God sees everything. Don’t be thinking that you can deliberately hurt people and don’t be punished for it later. I cannot understand why we like to hurt each other, I really can’t. We people forget about 1 thing. At the end of the day…

We ALL have to live in the same world.

Love… BellaThe1

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“Money doesn’t make you happy”

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Dear Neighbours,

“Money does not make you happy”,

at least that’s what they say. Funny tho, because when I have money… I feel pretty happy. They also say “love” is what makes you happy. Guess “they” were not thinking about all the pain love brings.

Of course it’s good to have some love around you. But nowadays I’m questioning the authenticity of love from the people near you. 

  • Family

Family is something you can’t choose. If you don’t get along with your family when you’re poor, than you sure as hell will not get along with them when you’re rich. It surprises me tho that there are so many “bought” family members nowadays. You people searching for love?? Being family doesn’t mean you have to be good with each other. If my family is being more like a stranger, I’ll cut them loose.

When you do good, family can be very distant. It’s like people will only love you and support you when it’s beneficial.

  • Friends

Well well well, friends. Either you got them, or you don’t. The sad truth is that it’s hard to see who are true and who’s fake! True friends,.. you can count them on 1 hand. If you’re broke TOGETHER, you definitely should be rich TOGETHER. My advice: Have 1 or 2 friends you share EVERYTHING with.

The others, are the ones you only go out with or the ones you can invite at your place. Be careful with the ones you invite at your home.
If the only thing your friend does, is gossiping about others, you should get the hell out of this “friendship”. Cause you KNOW!! Your name will be in that mouth.

  • L’amour

The fucked up truth about love is that love can feel like something you CAN’T live without. But when the other person hurts you… It could feel like getting hit by a train. One moment you can be so in love and the next moment all you wanna do is murder someone.

It’s hard to tell when someone really loves you. Most relationships these days are as fake as a new pair of boobs. Just hanging there, ready to pop.
Do you rather be poor with the chance of getting hurt? Or be happy rich and buy some friends and family? As this is all fake anyway.

With or without money, it’s YOU who builds a relationship with others. It doesn’t matter if you got money or not. Someone who is true with you, will take you as you are. Money can buy you stuff, you knowww!! So yes, from my point of view:

Money does make me Happy!! And if YOU are my friend, it will make US happy.

Love… BellaThe1

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