#Babymommadrama!

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Dear Neighbors,

Remember that children’s song about kissing in a tree, first comes love, then comes marriage, then comes you and a baby carriage ? Who would have thought that this would be a lot different in real life? My previous blog was about lousy fathers, enough about them. Today’s blog will be about even lousier mothers.

Witches! That’s what a lot of women become after a failed relationship with the father of their child(ren). Instead of a lovely parenthood, they choose to be hell on earth for their ex. Let the BABY MOMMA DRAMA begin. They can’t come over at the house, because that means you have to look at his hypocrite ass. They can’t pick up their child(ren), because you don’t know to which girls house he’s going to, with your child. Sleepovers at his place? Dude must be out of his mind! What if he plays house with his new bitch. These are all things you know for sure are bad for your children, so you’re protecting them, right?

Not!

He wants or is trying to move on, but you can’t stand that fact. Who are you fooling? Not your ex, cause that dude isn’t coming back for sure. Also not your children, but you will notice that later. Obviously it’s yourself that you’re fooling. You’re probably thinking: ‘The more you annoy them, the sooner he will realise, that he should’ve never left you.’ (bruhh) Women! Why should you knowingly and willingly keep a father away from his kid? When a guy chooses to leave you, but still wants to take responsibility for his children. Let him be! It may look like you’re winning, while blocking their contact, but actually it’s a barrier for the development of your children. A girl needs her father to show her how a man should threat her and a boy needs that same example, to become a person who takes responsibilities in life.

Despite a terrible understanding with “moms”, there’re still fathers who will die for their children. Like it supposed to be. So does the father of my little girl. The love my girl has for her father is amazing. The chemistry between those two is not only because of the fact that they share the same DNA, but also because of the attention he pays to her. To me, he’s a complete moron, but to her, he’s her king. Think about it, we all want what’s best for our children, right?

 

‘Most relationships fail because, couples fight with pride more than they work with love’

 

LoveBellaThe1

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Child abuse…

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Dear Neighbours,

Child abuse…

It’s something people don’t want to think nor talk about. Unfortunately it happens all over the world.
There are different kinds of child abuse. Physical or emotional abuse, but also sexual child abuse.

I want to talk about the last one. We all have some sexual needs, but to express them on children…?
This is some fucked up shit, for real. I can’t and don’t want to imagine what such a person thinks when he does this cruel repulsive activity.
How can you as a grown up, take advantage from a child’s innocence and not only hurt this child physically, but also cause mental damages.

I read about this dutch top official sir Joris Demmink. Who’s been accused several times of sexual abuse of little boys. Someone is innocent until proven otherwise. In most cases it is. It could be your neighbour, or a teacher at your daughters school. It could even be an uncle or at the worst scenario, your own father. In that case the police will lock your sorry ass up and search for proof that you did all of these inconceivable things. And they should be. I think child abusers should be locked up for the rest of their lives with big strong baldy rapists. But since it’s about a pedophile that’s working for the department of justice, all of a sudden, JUSTICE is not doing his work as it supposed to be over here. They are even paying a lot of money to expensive lawyers to defend his pathetic ass.

This pedophile has a “side” job since the 90’s and is never been prosecuted. And every time he was accused, there was or a lack of evidence or the victims were accused of taking false reportings. How can the department of justice have an employee in service that’s being accused of pedophilia all this time? You should think they are supposed to lock this animal up instead of cash out salary to him every month.

I don’t get it, this system that’s supposed to protect us and our children, is allowing someone who has committed a BIG crime, lock up other criminals.

He obviously “ain’t worried about nothing…”

Love… BellaThe1

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Sex is getting a “younger age”…

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Dear Neighbours,

Sex is getting a “younger age”…

At the age of 14, the only thing that kept ME busy was, playing outside with my friends and going to school.
Thinking about sex was taboo. At that time I thought it was something you do at an older age. Ever since I went to high school, mom was scared that I might have had sex. She was accusing me of having sex on a daily basis. At that age I couldn’t believe that my own mother could accuse me of such animalistic behaviour, but neighbours, I’m grateful she did that. Now I understand she did it to protect me.

Nowadays it almost seems normal that children are having sex, but it’s NOT. It does not surprise people nowadays because it’s a known fact there are more and more children doing it. The law is trying to protect our children against sex, but the sad truth is that the law can’t prevent it.
If my daughter is not 16 yet and she decides she’s old enough to have sex, then hell yeah she is old enough to start paying some bills up in this house (just kidding)!! If it were up to her father she’ll die a virgin, lol. What I’m trying to say is, I will do everything in my power to protect my child from doing something that will mark her at an older age.

We as parents have to protect and prevent our children to get in touch with sex too soon. Yes, I know it’s difficult. Because, what can we do if there is seduction everywhere you look? At school, among friends and also stars giving the wrong examples. I’m not saying that stars are telling our children to have sex, but what are they teaching our children with sexual lyrics and dressing almost naked on the red carpet? I know that “sex sells” nowadays, but when I think about it, I feel guilty because I also let my daughter listen to certain music and watch video’s on youtube. Is there a way we can prevent our children from all of the seductions out here? Is there?…

I think we can start with letting our children be CHILDREN as long as possible. At my daughters primary school there are children dressing like adults and wearing make up like they’re about to hit the catwalk. YOU as a parent need to understand that this is tempting for these young boys who are discovering their sexual abilities. Children are easy to persuade, you’re giving these curios/horny boys and other perverts the opportunity to get advantage of your innocent child.

I must say it’s not easy. Nobody is expecting it to be easy. But WE need to start somewhere. WE need to prevent our children to get pregnant or able to catch diseases and being mentally confused.

WE need to start building a better future instead of a WORLD that’s TOO MESSED UP to live in….

Love… BellaThe1

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