Small word, big meaning…
Being insecure is one of the ugliest things there is. Why? Because it makes you look small. Not small in a way of being short, but small as in; ‘people can walk all over you’. Like, you’re shit on their shoes. Nobody likes to have shit on their shoes. 1, it smells and 2, it’s not easy to get rid off. In other words, insecure people are annoying AF, period!
How can you expect people to respect you, if you don’t even respect yourself? Insecure people don’t respect the way they look. If you respect the way you look, you’ll show it, as if there is nothing that can break you.
If you don’t like the way you look, change IT! Make sure YOU count! Not only for the outside world, but more important: FOR YOURSELF!
It’s not bad to feel comfortable in your shoes and to show the rest of the world that you do. However, make sure you won’t be too self-assured, like a Kim and a Kanye, those 2 live on their own “planet”. That shit, is not beautiful at all! There are people who make it a profession to make others feel insecure about themselves. Most of the time, these people are just as insecure as you are. Confident people don’t have the need to put others down to feel good.
If YOU don’t feel good about yourself, who will?? Nobody, and if you don’t love yourself, how can you make it possible for others to love you? I mean really love you! Isn’t that what we all want?
To be loved…
Why is it that people are so fascinated with other people’s life? Why should you fucking care who sleeps with whom and who is playing who? The funny part about it is: ‘People always wanna gossip about others, but they don’t want you to mention their name when you go confront that other person with it.‘ I’m telling you: ‘If you got no shame and come talk dirt to me about my man or a friend/family… Than you should have no shame when I mention your name as my source.’ Why should I make my brains work, to come up with a lie for a fiction, when i confront someone. This person WILL ask me where i got the information from. ‘Nooo, ain’t nobody got time for that.‘
Here is this “exposing” thing on social media. We people we love to see others get exposed. Once in a while, someone makes a fake Instagram with gossips about girls and guys or they share a sex video of others on Facebook. Why??? Why in hell, should you take any of your PRECIOUS time, cause time is precious guys, to go and deliberately hurt someone? Why do we, on the other side, enjoy watching and reading those things? Maybe it’s because we like to see others suffer. Or maybe we are glad the focus is on someone else instead of ourself. Either way if you come to think about it: ‘We are a bunch of heartless people ya’ll.‘
This exposing thing is not even fun anymore. When I hear or see some “new” exposure I’m like: ‘Here we go again, boringgg.‘ I don’t care about who is fooling who as long as the person isn`t fooling me. I don’t care about which guy is “bumping” which girl, cause the boy ain’t fucking ME! I CARE ABOUT ME! We people, should not be fascinated with nonsense! It does not make YOU better if someone else gets fucked and a “handful” of people know about it. Do you get paid for the information you got about others? Does it keep you dry when it rains? No, it doesn’t. Yeah okay, the person who got exposed must have felt real stupid, but ain’t nobody forcing them to do nasty things. Like Kevin Hart says: ‘You gon’ learn today!’
Neighbours I don’t know if you believe in God, but I do. God sees everything. Don’t be thinking that you can deliberately hurt people and don’t be punished for it later. I cannot understand why we like to hurt each other, I really can’t. We people forget about 1 thing. At the end of the day…
‘We ALL have to live in the same world.‘