The Police is NOT your friend!

Dear Neighbours, It’s something you almost see daily on the news these days, ‘Abuse of authority by the police!‘ What’s going on with all these killings by the police nowadays? It’s like they got no remorse! All they show to us citizens is …


What’s our status?

Dear Neighbours, In my previous blog i told you guys about how the youth has gone wild. Since there is a lot to say about this subject, today i want to write about the following: ‘When can you assume you’re in a relationship?‘ …


Dear Neighbours,

I want to use this blog especially to talk to the young people among us, and with young i mean between 16 and let’s say 28.

I’ll start with a question first. ‘Have you people LOST your mind?’ The reason i ask this question is because i see the young generation in my environment, acting as if they got no brains. I must be living in the wrong world. There is absolutely NO respect given these days from boys to girls or vice versa. It’s like all these “children” grew up with no parents, because i can’t imagine your father nor your mother, raised you like that, at all!

Boys nowadays are making it a sport to screw as much girls as possible. Friends are even passing on girls to each other like ‘Pass the Courvoisier’, only these girls are not as classy as Courvoisier, obviously.

What kinda girl are you, when you screw the whole team? This is probably the reason boys are acting like this, cause these girls got no respect for themselves what so ever.

‘Is this really the life you want guys?’ What makes me mad is the fact that most of you don`t even wear protection! Not only are you taking risk, by spreading some killer diseases, but you also have no idea which girl is gonna baby trap your ass, and there you are: putting an innocent child in a fucked up situation. We all know: ‘a baby trapped daddy ain’t gonna stay!’

Girls,┬áto get respect you have to respect yourself first! It’s not likely that a boy will respect you if you screwed his friends or if you’re known as the neighbourhood ho.

Boys, for real??? A girl is not an object. Someone is gonna call her mom one day. Do you wanna be the one who fucked that childs mother up?

I don’t know how this is gonna be in a few years especially as a mother, but I do know:


‘’s not looking good.’


Love… BellaThe1

Young folks gone wild!

Friend Pretenders..

Dear Neighbours, How do you recognize them? Those friends who are so nice and kind to your face and so false and not friendly at all, behind your back. You, as the person near this friend, don’t see the bad in them, while …


Create your own self..

Dear Neighbours, People have the need to look better than they actually do. You see all this “showing off” by others and you want that too. I call people sheep, because of the herd behaviour. For example: If someone got a new shoe, …


Where’s Mr. Right?

Dear Neighbours, Have you girls ever wondered if he does exist? Mr. Right… Trough a lifetime you see so many different men. Some will enter your life and others won’t. If you’re not settled at this moment, it’s because you haven’t find someone …

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Why should you care?

Dear Neighbours, Why is it that people are so fascinated with other people’s life? Why should you fucking care who sleeps with whom and who is playing who? The funny part about it is: ‘People always wanna gossip about others, but they don’t …


‘Hate is the new Love’

Dear Neighbours, ‘Hate is the new love’,┬áthese days. Not only females are competing with each other, but the men too! ‘Guys, I thought you were raised better than that?!’ Too bad, you aren’t. Men love to post material things on Social media. You …



Dear Neighbours, Everybody knows what the word catfish means ‘Someone who pretends to be someone/something they’re not’. There really are a lot of “catfishes” on social media nowadays, I must be honest. We girls will never feel pretty enough when we go natural. …


Is he blind?

  Dear Neighbours, ‘Have you ever wanted someone so bad for like… yearsss?’ You hear about this person all the time and you see him(or her) once in a while, passing thru. You watch this person chatting with everybody and flowing every other …